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How To Lie About Your Age And Get Away With It.

By | January 4th, 2017|Categories: gay dating, Gay Dating Online|

QUESTION I have so much better luck meeting guys online than offline that I’ve completely given up going to bars. I’m 48, very healthy, active, good looking, and blessed to look 35. Here’s my problem: When I put with my true age on my profile I get no responses. Absolutely zero. It doesn’t matter if it’s GrindR or Mister or all the other ones in between. If I lie and place the exact same words and pictures (only this time saying I’m 35), I get lots of responses. LOTS. It’s the exact same me…only the real me gets zip and the dishonest me gets plenty. I’m at a loss as to how to proceed. Even people my own age don’t respond to my 48 year-old ads, but they respond to my 35-year-old ads. I think the whole gay community is fucked up. I don’t believe in being dishonest. I don’t want to start a relationship where the first thing I say is a lie. I don’t even want a one night stand if I have to be dishonest to get it. But I also don’t want to be without sex for extended periods of time. What should I do? […]

Are You Giving “Canadian” Blow Jobs?

By | December 14th, 2016|Categories: Gay Sex|

You know, well-meaning but DULL.   Well, we have just the antidote to your yawn-producing BJs--a new book by our resident sex advice columnist, Woody Miller!   Rather than do the introductions we're actually going [...]

Pssst! Wanna Laugh? Check Out Our Funniest Drag Queen Names Infographic.

By | December 5th, 2016|Categories: Uncategorized|

Seriously, does a clever drag queen name ever get old? NEVER.  This infographic memorializes the winners of our national survey.  Enjoy!   Media:  This infographic is copyrighted.  You may re-publish by linking to grabhim.net.      

QUIZ! Can You Tell The Male Models From The Gay Porn Stars?

By | December 4th, 2016|Categories: Misc Men Dating Men Posts, Uncategorized|

Question: Is This A Fashion Model Or A Porn Star? Answer: Both. It used to be that the only thing male models and porn stars had in common is that they both had to sleep [...]

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By | November 24th, 2016|Categories: Uncategorized|

Excerpt #3 From Dale Dent’s Diary, The Gay Version Of Bridget Jone’s Diary.

By | November 4th, 2016|Categories: Gay Romance Excerpts|

What’s A Guy Like Me Doing In A Place Like This?   SUNDAY, DECEMBER 29 Love thermometer:  Not registering.  Sex thermometer:  Not registering.  Am going to have to return and ask for money back. Home.  7:30 p.m.  Richard barks into the phone, “I’m not in the mood for your bitching and moaning about being single, Dale.  Go to a sex club for God’s sakes.  Maybe you won’t be so annoying if you got some dick. Me:  “Yeah, right.  Me at a sex club?  That’ll be the day.” TUESDAY, DECEMBER 31 Sex club.  2:15 a.m.   Can I get any lower than this?  Am I that desperate […]

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