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Are Gays More Racist Than Straights?

March 21st, 2015|

My friend Colby thinks so. He’s half white/half black/all gay. “I’ve had people come up to me in predominantly white gay bars and say, “Shouldn’t you be at the black bars?” I constantly overhear gay men say, “Eeew, I’d never date a black guy.” Colby is upset and rightfully so. He’s convinced that gays are more prejudiced than straights, but I’m not so sure. While nobody would deny Colby’s experiences, he doesn’t have anything to compare it to.  I mean, is it any worse for straight black guys who hang out at predominantly white heterosexual bars? I bet they hear as much or more racially-tinged remarks. […]

Everything That’s Wrong With Gay Dating Apps in One Hilarious Infographic

January 28th, 2015|

Hopes Dashed! Dreams Broken! Entire Nights Wasted! Nothing captures the reality of gay dating apps better than this hilarious infographic. Thanks to all the flakes out there who inspired us to produce this zinger. Enjoy! If you DO end up hooking up on an app, make sure you give him the ride of his life by reading How [...]

What Do You Say When Somebody Asks If You’re Hung?

January 28th, 2015|

Take Our Survey On Dating Apps! When you vote you get to see how everyone else voted, too! • How do you respond when somebody asks if you're hung? • How many pics do you need to see before you you'll meet somebody in person? • How many of the guys you’ve met misrepresented their [...]

What If The Guy You’re Dating Won’t Accept Your Apology?

January 16th, 2015|

QUESTION: I’m 36 and have been single for 4 years now. I went through a very hard time in a previous breakup and unfortunately it caused major insecurities that caused me to push away a wonderful man I was dating. I acted stupid and have apologized over and over again.  But, Mr. Man will not give me the time of the day now. What else can I do to tell him how sorry I am and how much I miss him without acting like a desperate fool?  
 —  One sorry dude […]

Help! How Can I Be 23 And Have Such A Boring Life?

January 11th, 2015|

QUESTION: I am 23 and my partner is 26.  We have been together 4.5 years and I practically moved in on the first date!  We bought a house in January, and I’m feeling very “grown up.”  I thought we were the only ones….until I read the letter in your column from “Age wasted on young.”

All our friends are the apartment-dwelling-single-party types and when I read the letter, I knew I had to do everything I could to meet this other settled early twenties couple.  I know you probably can’t give me their contact info, but I thought maybe you could forward this letter to them and maybe they would feel a similar desire to say “hey.” […]

12 Man-On-Man Kissing GIFs That Went Terribly Wrong.

December 12th, 2014|

Apparently the only two options when you're kissed by another man is to kiss back or hit hard. But either way it's hard to deny how funny these GIFs are. Watch out for that left hook! NOTE: Depending on your browser you might have to double click on the GIF to see it animate. 1. [...]

20 Texts That’ll Make Him Bend Over (With Laughter).

June 15th, 2014|

Make Him Laugh… And you’ll be halfway up his leg. The problem is that you can get so anxious texting a hottie that you make your coffee nervous and then, BAM! Brain fart! You can’t think of a clever thing to text. Relax, here’s a list sure to make him bend over (with laughter). See more texts in the The Guide To Gay Texting: The Art Of Making Guys Obsess Over You. ✦ Made you look! ✦ On a scale of “impaired judgement” to “Mel Gibson,” how drunk are you? ✦ Get your mind out of the gutter. It’s blocking my view. […]

Help! I’m Hung Like A Bear And I Can’t Get Guys To Pay Attention To Anything Else!

May 22nd, 2014|

Question. I have re-entered the dating world after ending a 20 year relationship a little over 2 years ago. Made some wonderful new, good friends and even thought had met some potentials for a relationship. Problem for me, and yes I am being serious, I am over endowed. Why a problem? That seems to become a date’s main focus. I just got a call this morning from man I was dating before January. We had stopped as he had to travel for his business for few months. Told him was glad to hear from him and had enjoyed our several dates and would love to see him again. He told me “I just miss your dick.” Recently I ended a dating relationship that I thought was starting off well. He was going away for 2 weeks and asked if he could take a picture of me to have while away. I was very flattered, until he told me all he wanted was a picture of my hard cock. That is just 2 of several examples. And yes I have explained to these men how I feel, but their focus seems to stay the same. Some have even shared my size with their friends, who, when I first meet them, make comments how they have heard all about my size…not my name…not what I do for a living…not how much their friend enjoys being with me. […]