How Do You Get A Guy to Admit His Infidelity?

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 December 3rd, 2015|

You got suspicious because anytime you get near his computer when he's online he closes all the windows so one day while he was gone you looked up the browser history and sure enough it was brimming with hookup sites and his mailboxes were stuffed with the promise of new meat.   How do you [...]

What To Do When You’re Trapped In A Sexless Marriage

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 November 26th, 2015|

Q:  I’ve been happily married for 25 years. Except for the first five years, my husband and I have no sexual relationship.  His drive is very low and I lost interest in trying to find ways to improve it.  Now in our early 50’s, we are both still fit, attractive people.  However, I have missed [...]

How Gay Are You?

2015-11-12T17:03:56+00:00 November 19th, 2015|

Paul Rudnick in The New Yorker has a hysterical take on Kinsey's Straight-to-gay spectrum.  Here's a tidbit:   Alfred Kinsey believed that human sexuality could be charted on a scale of 0 to 6, with 0 being “Exclusively heterosexual” and 6 being “Exclusively homosexual.” Owing to changing cultural boundaries and advanced research, Kinsey’s scale has [...]

Top 10 Gay Dating & Hookup Apps Ranked by Customer Satisfaction Reviews

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 November 18th, 2015|

If you've ever Googled "gay dating app reviews" or "best gay hookup apps" you'll get one person's opinion on the subject.  Listening to one critic may not be appropriate if said critic doesn't share your tastes.  If you're a bear and he's not, he might give GrowlR a bad rating while you may think it's [...]

Was Alexander The Great Gay?

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 November 13th, 2015|

Was Alexander The Great Gay? It Depends On What you Mean By “Gay.” If you mean was he sexually and romantically attracted to men, then he wasn’t gay. He was gay on stilts. But if you mean did he identify himself as “gay,” then the answer is no. The concepts of heterosexuality and homosexuality didn’t [...]

Survey: Which Sexual Innuendo Is More Likely To Get You In Trouble At Thanksgiving?

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 November 12th, 2015|

 Ahh, Thanksgiving! A time to reflect on life, express gratitude, and...see how much innuendo you can get away with before somebody donkey punches you with a drumstick.   So! Let's vote...   online poll by Opinion Stage [/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container]

How To Lose Weight Without Dieting

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 October 23rd, 2015|

Can You Eat What You Want & Stay Sexy Skinny? Yes, if you use Habituation, Desensitization and Delayed Gratification Techniques.     Almost everyone has a moment of reckoning about their weight gain—a moment so packed with meaning that it bursts through the damn of denial. Mine came at a department store when I was [...]

Do Guys OWE You SEX If You’ve Paid For Dinner?

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 July 30th, 2015|

QUESTION: I keep meeting these guys that sexually tease me and then at the last minute they play Sister Mary Magdalene and claim they’re “just not that kind of girl.” Last month I met some flight attendant on the way home from a business trip and he agreed to spend the next weekend with me. [...]

You Do WHAT?!

2017-04-08T18:17:53+00:00 June 15th, 2015|

Guest Post by Eileen Dover for We’ve all seen the ads, even in the “Pre-Grindr/Scruff” days when a dude would put an ad in the back of a magazine or a recording on a phone line with his stats, size, girth, and phone number, waiting for someone to call, someone hot, someone young, someone [...]