Are You Subconsciously Sending “Go Away” Signals To Cute Guys?
What you do with your arms, the way you use your hands and the way you gesture or look at somebody can mean the difference between making yourself approachable or avoidable
The approach has to be subtle, friendly and non-threatening. Here’s something you may be doing that could be your undoing: Starting conversations by facing him squarely. Most guys will feel uncomfortable with that.
Maybe you’ve touched him in a way that signals friendship, not desire. Strategic touching is essential to building attraction but how do you do it without being a creep? Hint: It’s not just where you touch him but how
Look In The Mirror. Your Body Language Is All Wrong
Can I tell you a story? Going out to bars and parties destroyed my self-esteem. I felt like a complete loser. How many times can you come home without meeting anybody before you feel like there’s something wrong with you? Seriously, have you ever come home from the bars more depressed than when you left? If you’re like me, you’ve tried everything. Different bars, different people, different events. You changed your look, your clothes, your style. The result? Nada, nothing, zip. You may as well go straight. Well one day, I met a gay body language expert. He told me something that would change my life:
Half the Guys You Like Are Turned Off By Your Body Language
You know what my reaction was? “Bullsh_t.” I mean, come on! Body language? I’m not meeting good looking guys because of my body language? Puh-leeze. Stay with me because this is where it gets interesting. The body language expert (a psychologist, actually) took me under his wing and coached me in the art of using body language to attract the kind of guys I liked. He wanted a guinea pig–ME–to prove that the sexual body language principles that work for straight couples could, with some adaptation, work for gay men. Yes, body language for gay men. The result? In less than an hour, two good-looking guys struck up a conversation with me Here’s a partial list of what he changed:
* The way I shook hands.
* The way I leaned in (or away).
* How I pointed with my feet (yes, feet, long story).
* The angle that I talked to people.
* The direction that I approached guys I wanted to meet.
* The way I looked at guys I was interested in.
* The way I used my body to catch their eye.
* The way I used my hands to gesture.
The Result? Changing My Body Language Attracted Better Looking Gay Guys! Let me give you a real-world example:
Notice that he’s not blocking his chest or using his drink as an obstacle between him and other guys? That’s the proper way to do it if you want to make yourself more approachable. I go into more details about it in my instant download book about body language for gay men. My guide will help you meet better looking men. It’s packed with simple, step-by-step, easy-to-implement techniques like this one that give you immediate results. This is not a conceptual book; it’s a how-to guide, chock full of real-world gay body language techniques that you can start using TONIGHT.
More Body Language Advice
MAKE YOURSELF MORE APPROACHABLE BY…
1. Wearing a certain types of shirts and pants. Research shows men are far more attracted to clothes that… Well, it’s on Page 23.
2. You should also wear a certain type of jewelry and accessories. I’ll give away one of the secrets right now: Shoes! Find out why on Page 25.
3. Open your “Territory Line.” I show you how to do it on Page 26.
4. Create “Invisible Hallways” between the two of you by using your hands and arms while you’re talking to friends.
5. Point with your hands, your feet and your head. This is a little known secret among communication researchers. Pointing is an “invitation” (it also reveals how he feels about you). Where should you point and how? It’s all on Page 28.
6. Use Inviting Postures. Whether you’re standing, sitting (even slouching), there are do’s and don’ts to show your interest. They’re all on Page 29.
7. Make it easy for him to touch you. See Page 30 for inventive things you can wear or do to make touching you irresistible. They work like a charm!
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Hey! Who Wrote This Book?
On the set with Tyra Banks and Greg Behrendt.
I started my career by syndicating a sex and relationships column all over the country and I sort of became known as the “East Coast Dan Savage.” I then went on to write my first gay sex book, Men Are Pigs But We Love Bacon (Kensington). Next thing I knew I was auditioning for a co-hosting role in a heterosexual sex makeover series called The Sex Inspectors.
With the screen test cameras rolling, I remember the production chief asking me what I thought of women faking their orgasms. “That’s nothing,” I sniffed. “Men fake whole relationships.”
I got the job.
The show went on to be an international hit, airing in 12 countries, including the U.S. on HBO. It led to my biggest book yet, Sex Inspectors Master Class: How To Have An Amazing Sex Life (Penguin).
I love giving advice to people. I love to see barriers crack and humanity come to the surface. I hope I’m able to do that with Attract Hotter Guys and hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did writing it.
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