Gay Dating Advice: What Stops You From Meeting Attractive Guys?
Is This You?
You walk into a gay bar or a party and you see Mr. I’d Sell My Mother’s Soul For A Night With Him. He’s beautiful. He renders you incapable of thought. Wait. Did he just look? Hard to say. So you’re mind goes into monkey chatter overdrive and here’s how it goes down:
You keep trying to catch his eye, and for the most part he’s not responding. Still, there’s a flicker. You want to meet him but you remembered the last time you tried starting a conversation with a cute guy. He literally walked away from you as you were talking. You’re paralyzed with fear of rejection. You start running scenarios in your head. What should you say? What should you do?
Three martinis later you get the courage to go over to him. But you don’t know what to say so you stick with the tried and true, “Hi, I’m so and so. What’s your name? Awwwwwwwkward. You just sent the conversation into a dead end. So you say the kind of thing you HATE when guys try to hit on you…. “having a nice time? So what’s a guy like you doing in a place like this?” Oh, oh. Now you’re running out of things to say. He’s got his hands in his pockets—is that a bad sign?
“Yeah, nice meeting you too.”
Damn, you should have stayed home and cruised online.
Take heart. You’re not alone. It’s tough out there. If you’re like most guys I know, you’re sick and tired of going out to the bars and never meeting the kind of guys you’re interested in. You get fed up with feeling invisible in gay bars and parties. You just can’t believe that another whole weekend went by and all you got out of it was a bar bill. It’s easy to start thinking there’s something wrong with you. At one point in my life going out to parties, social events and bars destroyed my self-esteem. I felt like a complete loser. I mean, how many times can you come home without meeting anybody before you feel like there’s something wrong with you? I know I haven’t met you, but I want to make an assertion:
There’s Nothing Wrong with You.
There’s Something Wrong With What You’re Doing.
What If You Had Rock Star Confidence
And Knew Irresistible Ways To Approach Gorgeous Guys?
You would be able to walk into a room and get noticed right away. You wouldn’t be afraid of rejection. You’d be able to start conversations with anyone anywhere at any time. And those conversations would capture the imagination, stir curiosity and set the stage for a real connection. You’d be able to start a conversation with a good-looking guy who doesn’t look interested and charm him into wanting you. You’d know how to disarm guys who think you may be hitting on them so they’ll relax enough to have a conversation (and give you a chance to see you as a potential partner them). You’d know how to prevent ‘conversation stalling” and awkward silences.
You Would Have More Dates,
More Sex And More Relationships
I’m going to end your lonely weekends once and for all. I’m going to show you how to meet gay men easily, without fear of rejection. These techniques work no matter what you look like or how old you are. No matter how much money you make or what nationality you might be. After hosting HBO’s The Sex Inspectors, writing Manhunt.net’s gay dating advice column, and publishing several books on how to meet, attract and date beautiful gay men, I can say this with authority:
I’m Going To Have You Meet At Least One New Attractive Gay Guy…
…each and every week for the rest of your life. Here’s how I’m going to do it: I’m going to get rid of your fear of rejection. I’m going to give you rock-star confidence at gay bars and parties. I’m going to tell you what to say so you’ll never be at a loss for words when you’re standing next to a beautiful guy.
Let’s face it, you’re in a low-confidence, low-competence trap. Not knowing what to say or do lowers your confidence and the lack of confidence stops you from trying.
But what if you did know how to approach the guys you’re interested in? What if you knew what to say? And what to do? You’d be able to date the kind of guys you always wanted. I want to show you how to conquer your fear of rejection and learn powerful conversational techniques that makes you irresistible to attractive guys. It’s a complete program that’ll help you acquire a completely different mind-set and give you a powerful set of conversational skills that predispose guys to like you.
Introducing The Guide To Gay Dating Advice.
The first step: Get rid of your fear of rejection. You do that first by changing your perception of the guys you’re attracted to. See right now, you see them as goals and approach them with a do or die mentality. You either hit a home run or you strike out. In the most humiliating way possible. The result? Paralyzing fear. The kind that stops you from ever taking a chance.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. In my instant download ebook I show you a profound way to get around your date-killing fear of rejection.
It’s actually a visual that you hold in your mind’s eye. The Huffington Post called it, “An unbelievable powerful mind-shift you can achieve in minutes.” Once you’ve got that handled, then it’s time to…
Grow Unstoppable Confidence
Here’s the thing. You can’t buy confidence. You have to earn it. Instead of pep talks and visualizations, my instant download guide gives you exercises to build competence with irresistible social skills. Here’s the formula: Competence = Confidence. Not the other way around.
So, let’s talk about this competence thing. The only way to get comfortable talking with good-looking strangers is to get comfortable talking to all strangers. Do the exercises on P. 23-55 of my eBook. They’ll teach you how to:
• Think outside of yourself
• Talk from a place of sincerity
• Know interesting facts about the human condition
• Understand the underlying humanity behind conversations
• Connect in meaningful ways
• Create rapport
• Make people feel better about themselves
• Add value to people’s lives
• Become a better person.
Take A Look At My 9 Step Method:
Step 1: CONQUER YOUR FEAR OF REJECTION Learn my secret for eliminating approach anxiety so you can talk to ANYBODY anywhere without sounding needy or insecure.I will give you a simple exercise you can use to DESTROY your fear of approaching good-looking gay guys immediately. It’s a combination of adding rational empowerment to your inner dialogue, a game-changing visualization and a stop-you-in-your-tracks mind-shift. And it works whether you’re in a gay bar or anyplace else.
Step 2: GET ROCK STAR CONFIDENCE Use my strategies and you’ll be able to walk into a room and get noticed right away.You’ll learn the “3 second rule” and how to use it to COMPLETELY remove any anxiety you have about approaching gorgeous guys. I show you this piece of stellar gay advice on P. 26-30.
Step 3: GET GUYS TO PURSUE YOU. You can do this even if you’re not tall, rich or handsome. By using the concept of “Demonstrating Value,” you can literally get the hottest guy in the room to pursue YOU. All you have to do is understand a few fundamentals about human nature and apply them. It’s fun, easy to learn, and it WORKS. P. 41-54.
Step 4: SAY SOMETHING CLEVER What can you say to somebody that won’t sound like a cheesy pick up line or an awkward, try-hard attempt to sound cool? Learn the 7 biggest mistakes most gay guys make when trying to start a conversation (and how to avoid them).Try my long list of irresistible, no-rejection openers. They’ll capture the imagination, stir curiosity and set the stage for a real connection. Use them TONIGHT. They’re all on P. 55-75.
Step 5: CREATE A POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSION Learn how to give a guy that same feeling of “I have to have him” that he gets when he sees a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself. There are 5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a man that instantly lets him know you’re “in his league.” How to do it? It’ll all on P. 31-36.
Step 6: MAKE YOURSELF MORE APPEALING Learn how to start a conversation with a good-looking guy who doesn’t look interested. I’ll show you the best way to disarm guys who think you may be hitting on them so they’ll relax enough to have a conversation (and give you a chance to charm them). It’s all on P. 37-40.
Step 7: BUILD ATTRACTION Discover the most powerful approaches to getting him interested in you. They’re GUARANTEED to make him look at you and think, “Tonight just got more interesting.” They’re fun to do, they put a smile on his face and best of all, they’ve been field tested in gay bars, parties and social events. These gay tips are all on P. 76-82.
Step 8: KEEP IT EXCITINGI’ll show you how to prevent ‘conversation stalling” and awkward silences by using something called “Multiple Threads.” By talking in a way that creates mild suspense, you’ll create energy, rapport and the feeling that you have a lot to talk about. You’ll never run out of things to say again! P. 83-84.
Step 9: CREATE SEXUAL TENSION Strategic touching builds comfort and creates desire. Start out with indirect touching and escalate slowly with these time-tested tactics. Find out how to position yourself for no-threat touches, where to touch and how to use the “Prize Theory” to get him to touch YOU. Pretty soon you’ll need to read my gay sex advice series! All on P. 85-90.
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You’re worth it. Aren’t you tired of going out to gay bars, parties or social events and coming back empty handed? Aren’t you tired of going out and never getting the phone numbers of guys you want to date? Don’t let another weekend go by without learning the skills to meet guys that turn you on. Think about it: What would your love life be like if you had the confidence to approach anyone anywhere at anytime? How much more sex would you have? How many more dates? How many more relationships?
Gay Dating Advice Resources
Knowledge is power. Get a little knowledge get a lot of power. In that spirit we present the most comprehensive resource list for gay dating. From books and articles to apps and sites you’ll see an amazing collection of knowledge and wisdom. Enjoy!
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