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Taking The Nerves Out of First Dates.

2017-04-08T18:17:52+00:00 February 4th, 2017|

Dating can be scary. Let’s just put that out there and admit it. If you’re not looking for a hook-up, but actually want someone to spend your life with, then going on a first date might prove rather daunting. After all; you could be meeting Mr. Right, the one you’re going to be with forever. [...]

What To Say On A Date.

2017-04-08T18:18:08+00:00 August 24th, 2010|

Stick to positive comments. Nobody wants to date cynical, bitter people–that’s what friends are for. From a reader: First off, I’d like to congratulate you for being such a medically correct funny, heartless gay bastard. I like your column so much I went out to buy your queer-ass ebooks. But I digress… I have to [...]

How To Tell Older Guys You’re Not Interested Online.

2017-04-08T18:18:08+00:00 August 3rd, 2010|

You have the obligation to be kind and the right to say "Scram!" From a reader: Whenever I’m online I’m always being hit on guys old enough to be my father. I’m 24 but all the guys who leave me messages are like in their late 30s or 40s. I like guys around my age [...]

Is Effeminacy in Gay Men A Function of Nature or Nurture?

2010-07-26T09:45:18+00:00 July 26th, 2010|

Why do so many effeminate gay men prefer in their partners the very masculinity they’ve bleached out of themselves? The obvious answer is that they’re attracted to their opposites. But that answer only goes so far. Effeminate men may lust for their masculine counterparts but most masculine men don’t return the favor. Effeminate men get [...]

Meet Mr. Man– By Setting Reasonable Goals.

2017-04-08T18:18:08+00:00 July 17th, 2010|

If you can’t meet Mr. Right, you need new goals. Yours are killing you. You can’t meet Mr. Right (Or Mr. Right Now) if you’re riddled with a fear of rejection. Approach anxiety –the fear of starting a conversation with an attractive stranger–gets triggered by unreasonable goals. For example, telling yourself you need to go [...]

What If You Could Strike Up A Conversation With ANY Attractive Guy?

2017-04-08T18:18:09+00:00 July 7th, 2010|

How many more dates would you have? How much more sex? How many more relationships? Most guys can’t get themselves to talk to a guy they’re attracted to because of something called Approach Anxiety–the fear of starting a conversation with an attractive stranger. A lot of the fear comes from setting unreasonable goals. For example, [...]

Top 10 Pick Up Cars for Gay Men

2017-04-08T18:18:09+00:00 June 17th, 2010|

Which of the 2010 cars are most likely fill your trunk with new men? According to Autotropolis, here they are in descending order (descriptions are theirs): 1. 2010 BMW 3 Series Coupe Okay, so most gay men think the BMW is a cliché status car. But who cares what people think? The 2010 BMW 3 [...]

The best body language video on the web.

2017-04-08T18:18:09+00:00 June 12th, 2010|

Ok, so most of you know that I've written the first body language guide for gay men and that I'm obsessed with the subject. You'd think YouTube would be FILLED with great videos on (straight) body language showing you how to interpret gestures, postures and expressions. It's not. There's a sea of crap out there [...]